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Originally Posted by Waterloo12345
Hey, it's totally up to you but is your self imposed boundary to great for you at this time? Has it pushed you into potentially unsafe behaviour. How about writing a huge long email to your T instead of seeing this person. Or maybe both? It seems like you are acting out to punish t and your self cause the boundary imposition was so great. Be safe whatever you do.
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Not sure how to even articulate this in an email.
Please do not tell me to print my thread out and give it to him.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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