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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I was thinking this as well. My ex-T used to tear up at times, but I don't think I could have dealt with her actually crying regularly. You say that you feel bad that you upset her all the time--could this be holding you back? And maybe it's partly keeping you from crying, because you feel that will upset her more? I agree that you should talk to her about the effect that her crying has on you.
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Thank you for taking time to reply. Mine seems like every other session has her in full tears. I don’t like having that effect on someone. I worry she’s exhausted after meeting with me.
I’m conflicted because the topics do warrant sadness, but seeing it come from someone else only emphasizes that it’s not coming from me. Then I feel like I’m really weird. I don’t think I could tell a person they shouldn’t feel something when quite clearly I’m like the most unqualified person to say that. “Control your emotions please” - that’s my exact problem right!