Just catching up a few days here...
Well, yesterday I moved. Broke up with BF and moved out. Move went smoothly though there were challenging stairs (feeling it today(!)) Got the basics in place. It's nice. Just a room in someone's house, but good size. It's the first time I've lived "on my own" (ie. no BF or husband). Suppose there will be upsides and downsides to that...