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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I apparently misinterpreted the tone of his repeated “whatever.” I was reading it in more of an angry tone. Like, “Fine, whatever!” But then when we were texting later, he was very light and joking around like all was fine. So then I realized I had his tone wrong, that it had been more like, “sure, whatever, I don’t care!” Probably doing a poor job of explaining (awake in middle of the night), but I think I’d expected him to be annoyed so was projecting.
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I misinterpret h's similar "I don't care" when I tell him I want to go to a drumming circle or something. He says he means "that's fine, have fun" but I hear "I don't care about you." Interesting. I wonder if I'll start hearing him differently now... it would not surprise me because I feel so different, so... whole, since my recent realization, acceptance of and speaking out loud to t that I'm gay. Everything w h has been easier this past week - no arguments. I know he's not perfect, but I suspect I've been projecting my own crap on him for a long time while I was in such deep denial. Hmm. Is it Thursday yet? Haha.
Life is so interesting.