That happens constantly in my family. Like I said, it's all I've been raised to know, I've never thought of it as bad or rude, just normal to me. The problem too is in texts and such you can't really read tone or intent.... (one reason my T and I don't email anymore)

The thing is, In most cases I truly don't care what someone else is doing. if they are old enough to make their own choices, then do what you want. You don't need my permission or to run it by me. Maybe this is why I never keep friends, I'm rude when I think I'm just normal or kind... so hard to keep up with whats right or wrong in the world