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Originally Posted by DP_2017
That happens constantly in my family. Like I said, it's all I've been raised to know, I've never thought of it as bad or rude, just normal to me. The problem too is in texts and such you can't really read tone or intent.... (one reason my T and I don't email anymore)
The thing is, In most cases I truly don't care what someone else is doing. if they are old enough to make their own choices, then do what you want. You don't need my permission or to run it by me. Maybe this is why I never keep friends, I'm rude when I think I'm just normal or kind... so hard to keep up with whats right or wrong in the world
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Well, yeah, I mean I don't really care, either, but people don't generally say every thought that's in their head. I guess I probably watch too many true crime tv shows, but when I tell someone where I'm going, it's not me running it by them or asking permission. I'm telling them so if I go missing or worse, end up dead in a ditch, they know where I was heading and have a better idea of when to become alarmed if I don't return and they can't get in contact with me. With a partner, I would tell them because that's just a considerate thing to do for someone you share your life with.