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Old Sep 24, 2018, 04:09 PM
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Originally Posted by stopdog View Post
I figure an adult can go do what they want. I don't look to my partner to affirm whether I can go to the grocery or out with friends or so on. It would annoy the bejeesus out of me for someone to expect me to say anything more than - okay or maybe have a good time. Are you asking permission or just giving an update. An update doesn't really require much of a response as far as I can see.

In my case, it was more because H was home with D, and I didn't want to just be abandoning my parenting duties and sticking him with them. If it was just me and H, or, say, D was staying at her grandparents? Then yeah, whatever. It would be more of a statement "I'm staying out for a bit" rather than a question.