I've learned from my pdoc not to sweat the small stuff. It all works out in the end really. I'm trying to not talk about my issues with him as much too. He says I can't let go of that and he is right in someways. I should be happy that I have someone to spend time with. My brother-in-law and his kids haven't found a place yet and I am little annoyed at that. I should not have to deal with his kids angst.