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Originally Posted by Neverland18
I honestly have no idea what is going on with me, or whether this is normal. I have a healthy sexual drive, but I don't find myself attracted to anyone. So I know I want to have sex, but I just don't get turned on by anyone
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Hey, tbh I don't know much at all and am also new on the site
Firstly, though I know nothing about which label you would put that under I think it's normal. From my experiences there is NO normal when it comes to sex, though religions have tried to instill certain values and from a reproductivity standpoint there are certain procedures that we'd deem correct mating, there is no right or wrong (of course unless it involves malicious or damaging behaviour to others).
I have a friend who has a healthy sex drive but she claims individuals don't turn her on, the actual engaging in intercourse arouses/stimulates her.
For myself I have been attracted to some individuals, but more in a way "I want to be friends with them" not sexual attraction. (I'm trying to figure out my own problems of being aroused by shame so I'm not sure this would be accurate or of help lol).
I want to share a link but cant as I'm new, I did a quick google search of "high sex drive no sexual attraction" and read some of the questions at the top.
Although the questions asked had some differences to yours the terms
aromantic and
grey-sexual came up as I was glancing through one, perhaps that might be something to read into?
Hope this helps