Maybe that arrangement really isn't good for you. Is the cost of having them treat you like this worth it or could yiu just get some really simple healthy meals you could just heat up for yourself when you get home from work.

I have to eat after long days working on my farm all day or volunteering long hard days at the horse park. I have found really good quality food I can either heat up in 12 minutes in a fry pan on top of my stove or microwave. I also cook casseroles on the weekend (easy ones) & heat them up for my meals during the week. Honestly if my family was treating me that way I fould figure our a way to fend for myself.

Hmmmmm, they are cooking for you & making what yiu eat throughout the week & they ate commenting about your weight....then they need to rethink what they are cooking. Bottom line.....is it really worth this aggrevation to you?