(((((((((((((((((( angela )))))))))))))))))))))))))
you must find the common ground for the two of them (you). it's there. each time you try, you'll find a stone for building the bridge, but you'll do it...possibly one stone at a time. what are core things about self that can be agreed on by both? (i.e. female) it may just be very basic things for right now but it's a start. if there are things that can be viewed well and the same, it might ease the intense feelings right now. it may take a while dear, but until it's done, i hope that things will ease up for you internally.
(((((((((( angela ))))))))))))
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