Just because someone is NICE to you & hugs you doesn't mean they are into you. Some people are just nice in a more emotionally connecting way.

We are the ones who have to be discerning.....by that I mean if they are older & married don't let your heart get involved because it is WRONG. We have to be responsible for our own thoughts & emotions even if we feel someone may be leading us on. If the relationship is wrong.....DON'T GO THERE. You are as responsible for your behavior as he is for his.

In other words if you feel someone is leading you on who shouldn't be (a married man) then you are responsible for not allowing yourself to be led on whether they are actually doing it or not.