hi everyone...

i am facing issue with my wife. i found out 9 months back that she is involved with a guy since 7-8 months....just on phone emotionally nothing physical. Then things got bad and she said she would leave him....after 8 months when we were sharing good relationship...i again discovered that she is in touch with him. Though it wasn't any romantic chat...but just hi hello....still i was not ok with it.

One fine day I was high and I telephoned my father in law and spoke about this in bad manner. Now he is not sending her back to me. We both love each other and wish to stay together. Having said that, she also has to listen to her father. I have hunted my father in laws ego so he is teaching me a lesson.

I am in very bad shape. Initially her relationship was troubling me....and now this.

I have 10 years old kid as well. Please help how to cope up. She is in touch with me over phone. But she is finding my fault as to why I called her father while I was drunk. She is not seeing I had reason to call. Ideally I wouldn't have called him but as I was drunk I couldn't control my emotions and called him.