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Originally Posted by divine1966
So you are infatuated with a teacher/coach. It is not uncommon. It will pass.
But it’s indecent of you to pursue a married man regardless how excited you are to spend time with him or how attracted you are. Common decency dictates for you to stop this.
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Yes, I know that it's indecent...
I think my original thoughts were, "what am I supposed to do"? I haven't felt like this for anyone before.
I think I pretty much got the advice I needed... Basically to leave him alone and let the crush run its course....
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I am not sure what you are really asking. I doubt anyone on here will advice you to go for a married man. We can’t stop you but we aren’t going to encourage so what exactly are you asking?
I recommend to seek therapy to figure out how to deal with it
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I'm definitely going to talk to my therapist about this.
As much as I'd love to, I am not going to ruin his marriage.
I don't know if I made myself clear, I was kind of confused when I made my OP. But yeah, I was basically just wondering what I am supposed to do.
But I think everyone here pretty much gave me the advice I needed to hear, which is, "Don't seek out a relationship, don't get involved, control your own reactions to him, etc."
I don't want to be indecent. I don't want to be a home-wrecker and I am not asking anyone to justify my emotions or tell me to go after him. I just wanted to know what I am supposed to do with my feelings towards him.. I've never felt this way before for anyone.
I don't know HOW to "get over" him... I don't know what to do with my feelings. I got the advice I needed though, so I mean... I'll just be repeating myself again.
I think I'll just have this thread closed.
