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Old Sep 26, 2018, 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Seelenna1982 View Post
I often wonder this. Which is why I haven’t moved on to a different T. Plus I like her. I also think that I’m not qualified to judge someone’s healthy display of emotion when I have such a warped way of managing it.
—-I wondered when I read this if she was modeling crying for you. However, I don’t think that’s appropriate. I feel like smacking her (maybe I should take anger management classes, LOL) She could show videos on her computer of healthy crying and how it can heal. I think she really messes up her role as a guide for you by crying a lot. Of course that makes you wonder if she’s crying for real, not just freeing you to cry. Definitely ask her about it.
I didn’t cry for years because I had to control my disorder by staying focused,work, raise a son. Since being semi retired I let it out sometimes.
Thanks for this!
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