There was only one time T was unavailable during a vacation. That one time she promised her SO she would leave her work computer at home so she was unavailable. Every other time when she was away or even sick she would tell me she would be checking her email at least once a day so email I'd I needed.

Emdr T hee last vacation she told me she was available I'd need be as she knew I was in a really bad place. I didn't contact her. At this point I have to be in a REALLY bad place to text her. I don't want to inconvenience her.