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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
When my T goes on an extended vacation, I no longer have contact with her. However, we made a deal. If she goes on an extended vacation, she will give me something of hers to take care of. If she comes back, I give it back to her. If she doesn't come back, I keep it. I don't know what the item will be.
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I've found this sort of thing, a transitional object, to be helpful as well. My T generally lets me email when he's out of town, but he lets me know that he'll usually only be checking email once a day and probably won't be able to write a long reply. I do my best not to bother him (though ended up emailing him multiple times the last time, but there was a misunderstanding--it's complicated). I intend not to bother him when he'll be away for part of next week and next weekend.