When I find something like that in me, I "flag" it, kind of like with a golf course? :-) I know, as you seem to have picked up with yourself, there's more there I should explore. Those things are what I zoom in on. If I can make a list, then those are "old" topics and not living anymore and were told to my T "second-hand" since I already knew them. It's talking about the stuff with your T you don't know about yourself yet, haven't thought about, that make the whole relationship work and worth while.