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Mouse said:
...what I consider to be shameful such as telling someone just how much they mean to you. I will skirt around that and even sometimes go as far as to pretend they mean nothing to me, because to me to tell someone how much you care about them is somehow connected to then being exposed and open to being shamed,..

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This is definitely something I do a lot.
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If I can make a list, then those are "old" topics and not living anymore and were told to my T "second-hand" since I already knew them.

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OK, sort of went there, finally.

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It's talking about the stuff with your T you don't know about yourself yet, haven't thought about, that make the whole relationship work and worth while.

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*&@#$*!!