granite, it sounds like your T definitely has a memory problem. I know it will be difficult, but I suggest bringing it up with her directly. It is sad, but you need her to be honest with you. Maybe she is capable of working with you, or maybe not. I'm sorry this is happening. She's been a good T for you even with some difficult times. Possibly you can do some more good work even if she forgets sessions. Maybe she is on a med that causes memory loss and is temporary. You have a right to ask her because you're paying for a service. Or, you can continue until it becomes obvious one way or another whether your T can work despite her medical condition.