hi Sarah : )

i would center myself in a place best to help my friend from...

research, get information from several sources, check opinions and double check them

continue the care you have and be cautious you do not become consumed by it whit grief, should unfortunate situations arise which are out of your control, such as the move....

unless against Drs' advice, i would attempt to make contact with my friend in reasonable and sensible ways...

i would hold position and practice patience and faith throughout using whatever grounding techniques worked for me..

i would self-protect in consideration that certain factors and elements are beyond my control and i would consistently hope for the best and most positive outcome i could imagine and work towards its goal for myself and all involved..

dont forget to breathe : )