My spouse came to me this summer with the revelation that he has a 40yr old daughter, with her own husband and brood of kids. I have always considered having a daughter and under most circumstances would welcome this idea. Thing is she was born after we got married. I have had some bad experiences with other females making me gun shy.

I am hoping to talk with a therapist. I am trying to understand what I am dealing with.

Thank you
MzDaisy