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Originally Posted by golden_eve
Are there previous events that occurred that made you not trust him or vice versa? Events which made you feel you needed to see what's in his phone?
If there were, then I can understand the mistrust. But if you're choosing to trust him now, that sounds healthy, as long as he is worthy of your trust and is in fact, trustworthy.
IF he's not trustworthy, then it's not a very healthy relationship.
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With my current partner? No. I just find it peculiar that he needs his phone in order to grab a forgotten cup of water downstairs. I'm not suggesting I'd look in his phone because I have no desire to. It's just the act struck a nerve from previous relationships. (Similar behavior reminds me of past relationships). So it's all me and my mistrust in general, but I don't act or accuse him of anything because he hasn't done anything wrong.
I'm trying to reverse my negative thought process is all. I notice things and it reminds me of bad memories, but that doesn't mean current SO is doing it.