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Old Sep 29, 2018, 04:35 AM
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Location: Seattle.
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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel View Post
H and dad are fighting about finances again. My H is being selfish. He got his model 3 Tesla, and I got approved for a loan for solar for our house. We are hurting for money because H just can't seem to get a job. Anyways, H wants to get solar over me doing IVF We still might have to move on top of everything. H wanted to move 2 states away! He wanted me to take a plane twice a month to see my T... He wants to sell my car, sell some furniture, etc.
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I'm so depressed. I want to cry, but I can't. Both H and dad won't let me be to cry. They always want to fix things. I'm just emotionally tired.


Please try to stay safe. Could you just leave the house for a bit and go for a walk just to clear your head for a bit?

If H isn't working how can he afford the pricey car? That would be the first thing to go for me, cars aren't cheap. Just because he wants to move away doesn't mean you have to if you don't want to. The plane to T doesn't sound like a solid plan and I don't see why it has to be you who has to sacrifice everything.
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