I wrote a Post about how I cut off My sister who was using me. I realized She was bullying me...I realized She was triggering me. I felt an enormous relief from telling her that She didn't need to contact me then!
One time We talked about the abuse in the home and She agreed that It did happen. Now, She is in complete denial. Go figure.

I was talking about the Sexual Molestations that I had with her father/My stepfather, and her Grandfather/My Step-Grandfather she denied even saying that...I know she did. She accuses me of things and then when I say "I don't need You to accuse me of things that I am not doing." SHE said "I did not accuse You of anything...I said they were Mysteriously happening!" Tell me what is the difference? "then She asked the question Why are You so focused on Child molestation so much? I said because I am working on that in My life!

A lot of gaslighting, Triangulation (with My MOM) and Mind games...I felt a tremendous amount of relief after "cutting her OFF."

Even at 64, I AM STILL the scapegoat!