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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
H and dad are fighting about finances again. My H is being selfish. He got his model 3 Tesla, and I got approved for a loan for solar for our house. We are hurting for money because H just can't seem to get a job. Anyways, H wants to get solar over me doing IVF  We still might have to move on top of everything. H wanted to move 2 states away! He wanted me to take a plane twice a month to see my T... He wants to sell my car, sell some furniture, etc.
I'm so depressed. I want to cry, but I can't. Both H and dad won't let me be to cry. They always want to fix things. I'm just emotionally tired. |
I’m new here so I don’t know your history but it seems like this guy is a little controlling. “H WANTS to move 2 states away.” “H WANTS solar over IVF” “H WANTS me to sell my car” “H WANTS me to take a plane”.
Where does what Scarlet wants come into this picture? Surely you can put your foot down and say “No! I’m not selling my car. No, I’m not taking out a loan for solar. No I am NOT moving 2 states away.”