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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
H and dad are fighting about finances again. My H is being selfish. He got his model 3 Tesla, and I got approved for a loan for solar for our house. We are hurting for money because H just can't seem to get a job. Anyways, H wants to get solar over me doing IVF  We still might have to move on top of everything. H wanted to move 2 states away! He wanted me to take a plane twice a month to see my T... He wants to sell my car, sell some furniture, etc.
I'm so depressed. I want to cry, but I can't. Both H and dad won't let me be to cry. They always want to fix things. I'm just emotionally tired. |
Aren't Teslas really expensive? Why was it OK for him to get that, then he expects you to sell your car? And if you moved two states away, how would flying to see your T be at all economical? And can you just not do the solar thing? If you get it, then have to move,you'd miss out on any energy savings that getting solar would give you (though I guess it would increase the value of the house). It just sounds like he's making all the decisions--don't you get to have a say in these things?