So.... the latest:

My fiance's a big spender, a far bigger spender than me. I have to broach the subject of saving money for our honeymoon, for which we will have to pay.

At this point, we'll most likely elope, but we want an amazing honeymoon. He has a bunch of money right now from his prior divorce settlement, but it's dwindling quickly. I cannot tell him how to spend that money, but I want to ask if he'll save some of it for us, for our honeymoon.

Do I have that right? Otherwise, he won't be able to save any other funds because he doesn't have extra to save, even though he makes a decent living.

I don't know how to approach this with him. I don't want to be the only one paying for the whole honeymoon. I mean, I could save about $1000 per month, but that will take a long time to save enough, and I would prefer that some of that goes into actual savings, as well as that we split the cost of our trip.