This is interesting about how do we transfer what we learn to do and be in T to the "real" world. My take is that before in my life I was attracted to people that were themselves unable to deal with emotions, that most of my relationships were form almost in a co-dependent fashion and eventually as I work through the emotions my ability to deal with anything in the future will be done by me internally and not need to spill outwards. That in time trust willl be an emotionally known and learnt by me and not just rationally understood and if at any time I expose my self and someone trys to shame or use that against me, that will remain their issue and I am confident enought within myself to know I did nothing wrong in exposing myself and being emotionally honest, trust will be something I have in myself and not need proven by anyone else, afterall we can never fully know how another will react so can only have trust enought in ourselfs that we can surivive someone elses actions toward us, and not have to rely on others to act in a way that we would wish? Eventually we will not want or feel the need to emotionally "explode" in front of others, we will be self-contained and need what anyone else needs just plain old "human givens"?