Hello menote: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral. One other forum, here on PC, that may be of interest to you would be the anxiety, panic & phobias forum. Here's a link:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/anxi...c-and-phobias/

And then here are links to 8 articles, from PsychCentral's archives, that offer tips on how to deal with loneliness, finding true love, & how to overcome shyness & social anxiety. Perhaps some of the ideas in these articles can be of some help:

Loneliness & Being Lonely - Psych Central

6 Self-Sabotaging Patterns That Can Keep You From Finding Love | Love Matters

Change Your Mindset, Find True Love

True Love: How Do You Know?

https://psychcentral.com/blog/7-ways...ocial-anxiety/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/6-ways-...ocial-anxiety/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to...dium=popular17

https://psychcentral.com/resources/S...m_and_Shyness/

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.