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Originally Posted by feileacan
You have probably heard the claim or saying that children need parents to set safe boundaries. Do you understand what this saying means? Also, how do children express this need for safe boundaries?
How did your parents set boundaries when you were a child (if at all)? How did they react if you did something that crossed the boundaries?
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I sort of understand what you’re saying, but not completely. Can you please explain? I’m assuming there are some circumstances where a T might change a boundary. I haven’t asked him to, but I think about it a lot.
As for me, I pretty much did not cross any boundaries as a kid. I think I was afraid they’d take away their love if I wasn’t perfect, so I was exceedingly good.