What brought this conversation up this weekend the sister in law of member of a very close church group member I belong to pass away last week. My best friend and I decifmfed our way of helping the family ward to make a homemade meal for ther family. One day the had 2 viewings one on the afternoon and one on the evening. So my friend made dinner and I made deserts and brought fruit. It was so simple for us and for me therapeutic. The family was so appreciative since they were on the go all day so to be able to come home during their couple of free hours to a hot meal and to be able to sit was huge.