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Originally Posted by ArtieSwimsOn
Well I guess not. H told me I have to draw my own line. But my response to that is still, even if I do know my own line, somebody else can misinterpret what I mean anyway so what's the damn point.
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To me the damn point is that you can't control how other people react or what they do. But knowing one's own lines makes it so you are not at the mercy of guessing (both when you are right and when you are wrong) about what to do to control other people and to help give up trying to do so.
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