Grrr.
Ok, when we started dating, he was wooeing me like Romeo with Juliet. I told him to just treat me like a person, not a queen, not a princess, just a person.
Well, he has gone WAY over to the other side, treating me like I say nothing important, DO nothing worthwhile, and pretty m uchmaking me feel like a trivial appendage that he could easily do without.

When I brought the subject up today, he came right out and said "I want to deflect the conversation, lets talk about me!"

Everytime I have tried to talk openly and honestly about my concerns, he acts like if he changes the subject, I'll just forget about it. He never wants to confront the problem.
I had enough of burying my feelings when I was married and I won't do it anymore.
Should I just dump him and move on to someone who is open and understanding, or is there some way to change his behaviour to deal with the problems instead of forcibly turning a blind eye?
It is very annoying.
Any advice? I'd love to hear a male point of view too.
thanks
Tina