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MissCharlotte said:

I think of it this way: we did what we could to experience the precious litltle love that was available to us as children and then as adults we tried and experienced love to a degree. It wasn't optimum because we did not have the tools necessary to open our hearts all the way.

But, now that we are beginning to know--to feel--the pain of our anger that blocked that love, we can open our hearts a bit and let some more love in?

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and besides... we are now learning also how to be in better relationships so that we are in the right kind and can let the love in and know we are safe.... and right now we are reparing all the cracks in our hears so that they can't be damaged any more by the wrong kind.