This thread actually inspired me to draft something to show hubby. I haven't yet showed him because I think it best to do so on the weekend, instead of at night after his work. I also printed out the Psychiatric Advance Directive for my state, and started to fill it out. I obviously need to talk to some other people besides my husband about these things. Like who would be the executor of my will if my dear husband passes before me. That person would surely be different if we live in Europe at the time instead of the US. Of course I don't know if my older siblings will outlive me. Maybe. Wills do change.

As for my Psychiatrist Advance Directive, if my hubby is alive and well enough he would handle things in my absence. If he's not, I'd need someone as a backup to do so. They'd need to be willing and able to access my home and perhaps even handle my bills, depending on the length of time.

I guess decisions about other things would need to be addressed, too.

I like the idea of being an organ donor, but I'm middle aged now and some of my organs have minor issues.