Oh Skeez, thank you so much for this! I followed the link and found a wonderful blog called LavenderVisions, where I cried and felt truly understood.

Thank you for lessening the upheaval. I am not so much lurching, as falling straight out of the closet unto my ***, followed by a splat on my nose, dropping everything that I’ve been precariously balancing, and then toppling down the stairs. I may tiptoe back into the closet, but first I need to clean it up. Thank you for sharing your journey.