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Old Oct 03, 2018, 11:47 PM
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Originally Posted by feileacan View Post
I believe it could be helpful if he will stay where he is, not push back forcefully (to push you away, ie reject) but sort of indicate that "this is where I am, I am not letting you to do all those things but I will stay with you and I'm not going to leave you"
This is sort of what happened today. I expressed concern about sending too many emails over the weekend (3 in 3 days) and burdening him with them in such a way that he might resent me. He basically responded (in a gentle sort of way) that I must not think he’s capable, and it’s not up to me to worry about how he feels about my emails. He also hinted that since it’s an email and not a phone call, he can read them at his leisure and doesn’t feel pressure to read them right away. I also got the message (although he didn’t exactly say it) that he still won’t reply on weekends. I felt good about the conversation.
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