I don't think she is sick. Edit: I understand what you're saying though in your last sentence. I set a boundary in a phone message, and she seemed "Concerned for me" because of the way I said it. I was in distress and well, UPSET! I had a tone in my voice that conveyed that, and her concern made me feel like...like it wasn't ok to express myself that way. I'm already insecure about expressing myself that way.