(((((( So leigheas )))))

Imo .. there are some people who always need a scapegoat. . I’m not sure what to say right now except that people care about you here. As others have said, you’re precious. Unfortunately, abusers love to divide and to scapegoat . I guess I learnt that in sub optimal therapy by direct experience, as it echoed some of my earlier experiences. But I don’t think that you, or I, were ever “just” a scapegoat