I don't think anything that he said was inappropriate.
However, I find it a little bothersome that he started with potential motivations (possibly in an attempt to make you feel better) rather than give you some time and space to think and talk through your own potential motivations and needs, which may have nothing to do with your age or looks or what's out there.
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Since you cannot do good to all, you are to pay special attention to those who, by accidents of time, or place, or circumstance, are brought into closer connection with you. (St. Augustine)
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