Gosh, this sounds awful. I wonder if your t is burnt out or suffering from compassion fatigue!
She is very challenging and often that’s not really very helpful when we are in throes if depression.
It sounds as though you just wanted her to listen and to try and understand your experiences and how difficult they are right now.
Sometimes my t does similar by saying well whose choice is it to blah blah blah ... it makes me so angry that I have to tell her really? This is not helping, so she says what do need right now. I tell her to be quiet and just listen.