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Old Oct 05, 2018, 09:09 AM
Soybeans Soybeans is offline
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Originally Posted by FallingFreely View Post
Trying to compare one person's therapy experience to another is like trying to compare apples and oranges.

We all have our own 'stuff', traumas and needs.

I am always amazed at people who can go through therapy aloof like it's a doctor's appointment. Then there's me, experiencing therapy as intense and excruciating with high-transference and high-dependence. We're all really different!
It's funny because my previous T I never developed transference or attachment or dependence, and it was exactly that, aloof and like going to a doctor's appointment, and ironically we didn't get nearly as much work done in the 6 years I saw her than the few months I saw this recent T...