Unfortunately, I've tried both Seroquel and Seroquel XR. Seroquel XR was the one that gave me the severe depression and suicidal thoughts. I was so put off by it that I didn't want to go back on regular Seroquel. It sucked, too, because there's a coupon to get Seroquel and Seroquel XR for $3.
As for Geodon: My grandma slept all day on it. The IP doctors put her on an ultra high dose of it. Seroquel and Seroquel XR didn't work for my grandma AT ALL because it pooped out on her quickly. She was hyperactive, had that rapid speech, hallucinated, etc on Seroquel and Seroquel XR. She actually took Seroquel 3x a day and it didn't work. So Geodon and Zyprexa it was. She started the Zyprexa before the Geodon, so we know that Zyprexa wasn't the sedating one.
Anyway, that T of yours is so strange. I don't see any reason for people to NOT take seroquel unless they get negative side effects like I did. Usually pdocs have a problem with 1st gen AP's, never with 2nd gen.

I don't blame you for not calling her again. Talk about ignorant! My first T was ignorant like that, but in a slightly different way. She really did have a warped thought process.