I just replied to your introductory post. And, in that reply, offered you links to several articles from PsychCentral's archives. Here are some more... these on the subject of conflict resolution within relationships. (Hope you enjoy reading!)

How Healthy Couples Manage Conflict

How Conflict Can Improve Your Relationship

Avoid Relationship Meltdown: Your Blueprint for Conflict Resolution | Happily Imperfect

How Healthy Couples Handle Tough Times

11 Tips for Conflict Management | Building Relationship Skills

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/succe...ving-conflict/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/gain-c...-relationship/