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The others are perfectly correct that I let him know I am aware of this and ask him what is up with keeping me out of the loop. I ought to tell him I feel he is intentionally being secretive when it comes to me and that my feelings are hurt.
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I have observed mother/son relationships. It would be MUCH better to just say you heard he has a girlfriend & then LET HIM take it from there. Everything else yiu have suggested saying does nothing more than try to lay a "guilt trip" on him for making YOU FEEL the way you have chosen to feel. That would not go over very well if I were your son. Any time you go on the offensive it ALWAYS puts the other person on the deffensive.....not good for relationships ever & especially NOT mother/son in relation to a GF.