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Originally Posted by 12AM
I asked my fiancé about this, this is his answer : “If a guy doesn’t respect that you are in pain then they don’t love you because the priority for a guy who loves you they would not bring you pain just so they can have sexual satisfaction.”
Also, no, you don’t have to cry out loud or screaming “stop”. If he really loves you then simply saying “it hurts”, would make him stop.
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All I might have done was flinch and say "ow". I complained more about pain and discomfort in the past and he didn't want to touch me at all. I wouldn't have wanted to NEVER have sex, even though that's what it practically turned into. And that's definitely my life now. Maybe that's why some don't complain about pain. They do actually want to have sex again and just hope that it won't hurt the next time. And if it's enjoyable too, that's just a bonus.