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Originally Posted by Bobki52
I'm not taking her to court. She's taking me to court. She filed a Petition against me to have me removed as my mother's Trustee. It's a control thing. And I wish I could just distance myself from her, but she lives next door to Mom and Dad. If I want to see them, I have to deal with her.
My reason for wanting a psychiatrist to review the information I have compiled is to find out if I might be right about my sister's disorder or if I am off on a wild goose chase. If I am right, then her disorder will explain her behavior and call into question her motives (which are all self-serving) and her honesty (which is almost nonexistent).
I don't know if that helps explain the situation or not. But, for what it's worth, I was able to find a forensic psychiatrist who was willing to review the information and render an unofficial verbal opinion. And that's all I am looking for right now; a reality check.
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since she is trying to get you removed as your mothers trustee ...
she needs to prove to the court....
1. how ........you.......... did not follow the trustee agreement,
2. how.........you..........mis managed and neglected the trust fund / money and assets by spending the money on you and your own needs, by not paying your mothers bills on time and in full.
3. whether ..............you.............did not pay the beneficiaries their allowances on time....
4. whether you are abusing your mother and doing damage to your mothers home and assets...
5 whether ..........you........... are too mentally ill/ mentally unstable to manage the trust fund.
in other words the court case against her and whether she has mental disorders. its on whether .............you ..............have done something wrong with the trust funds.
..................if................. the court finds that ............you .........did mis manage the trust fund, or did harm to your mother and your mothers assets.........
then and only then will the court have your sister and any other next of kin to your mother go through the process of whether they can manage the trust fund with out using the money for their own needs and wants, will pay your mothers bills for her and take care of your mothers assets.
if its just you and your sister and the court decides both you and your sister are not capable of managing the trust fund then the court will choose a bank and lawyer to represent your mother that has no relationship to either your sister or you. then the impartial bank and impartial lawyer will be the one to take care of your mothers money / assets and bills.
if the court decides you did not mis use the trust fund, do harm to your mother and your mothers assets you will remain as trustee, taking care of your mothers money and assets and bills.