I did not discuss too much, just acted them. I talked with them in sessions and emailed, that was it. One of the Ts called me on the phone without my asking for it and I did not like it, but I did not say. I should have said it. But I did tell him in the end that his emaling boundaries were very messy and confusing.

I did try to discuss boundaries with the 2nd T but he said that he thinks it is better not to put anything set in stone because that tends to just be invitation for breaking it. I never had any boundary issue with him.