I try to co-exist with them. Put them outside gently. Same with bees and moths.
Once in a while I forget to check the bath before I turn the taps on, and then I feel guilty.

It's funny when I go out my front door in autumn and there are spider webs right across my path. I feel like I do have the right to - lol - walk out of my front gate in the morning despite all the hard work some spider has put in during the night, and despite the fact that webs are beautiful.

I suppose I have some way to go before becoming truly spider friendly. Spiders are welcome themselves, but every so often I destroy the webs under the cupboards and in my garage.

One spider dropped down and bit me. I could see his point of view and didn't feel bad about it. :/